This is Day 11 of the 21-Day Positivity Challenge held in March 2012, where we work on being positive for 21 days. The challenge is now over but you can do the tasks in your own time. Visit the overview page for all the challenge tasks.
21DPC Day 11 Question
Yesterday, I asked you if there are any negative people in your life at the moment.
Some of you answered a “Yes”, and shared in detail who these people are and why they are present.
For those who answered a “Yes”, I’d like you to think over the following today:
How Can You Better Handle the Negative People (from Day 10)?
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Your Task:
- Reflect and answer today’s question(s). Write as few or as many words as needed to fully express yourself.
- Start applying what you wrote, starting from today.
- Execute at least one of the steps on one of the negative people you cited on Day 10 (or someone you didn’t cite, but can be a negative energy at times).
- Observe how the interaction goes, and ask yourself if it’s more positive, more negative, or the same as the past interactions with him/her.
- Think about how you can make it an even more positive experience for both you and him/her. Share your results with us in the comments section.
- Identify at least one positive thing about your day. It may be something small or something big – as long as you deem it as something positive, it counts. If you have more than 1 thing to share, then by all means, go for it!
Share Your Answers!
After you are done, share your answers in the comments area.
If you’re doing this at the start of the day, you can post your answer for today’s question first, then work on your positivity task throughout the day, then return at the end of the day to share your results for your positivity task and your end-of-day positive reflection.
Check out other participants’ answers. Pick 1-2 participants’ answers and make a meaningful reply to them. Engage in the discussions. This is a group course, so let’s support each other in these 21 days!
(Images: Happy girl in the field, Blocking sunlight)
well, I will try to stay possitive even when people are complaing.
Cannot igore my husband, but maybe I can try to influence him and change the subject.
what was possitive about today is that is was warm and nice weather :-) relax and enjoing to be off !
let me start with the positive thing about today, the rain, atleast a cool breeze passed through my room and brought some life. otherwise, since im the negative person in my life, i cnt run from myself. im trying to stay postive but its difficult. i even bought a book about how to stop worrying and start living, but its catching dust. i read it several times, put it down and now the things in there dont seem to be what im looking for. …please give me some tips on how to start being positive
For a start, try to look for something positive in a person, in a situation, and especially in yourself. Keep your heart and mind open.
Worrying about anything does not solve the problem, in fact, it will close your mind and your heart and may affect your health too.
If something is going to happen, it will happen, whether you worry about it or not. So, keeping your mind and heart open, ask yourself, what can you do when it happens, what are the options, etc. think it through or think of a way on how to avoid it from happening, if it’s not too late and if the situation can still be saved.
Well maybe I just just avoid them instead of being with them and regretting it. So today I talked to a friend of mine and we’re probably going to be flatmates next year if I can find a job to pay the rent ! That would mean so much more freedom about my mom and my sister and such a better life ! =)
The best thing about yesterday is that I managed to run 2.5K, which means that my muscles are finally coming back. I decided to be able to run a 5K in 2 weeks – one year ago I could run a semi-marathon, but I haven’t trained for one whole year after hurting myself. I want to come back and even though it still hurts, I’d like to be able to run a 10K again =)
I think this is a great question, because we need to start with ourselves. Over the past few months, I’ve been working hard to keep a positive attitude and I have become a lot more self-aware. It’s so easy to get pulled in to the negativity without even realizing it. Every night before I go to bed, I try to think about my day and see where I could have improved and done things better. It’s part of my journey to become a better person. I’ve quit beating myself up over it, I just try to learn from it. I still notice that sometimes I say or do things that aren’t completely in line with who I want to be. But I think just being aware of it helps me improve. It goes back to setting the example for others. It’s so easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing that you forget to look at yourself.
As I interact with the negative people in my life, I’ve been trying to get them to look at the positive things in their life and pull attention away from the negative things. I’m trying to listen more, think about what the real problem is, what they are really concerned about. If there is something I can do to help them, I try to do it. If I notice myself being pulled in to the negativity, I try to get out of the situation. Today, I’m going to be extra aware of my interactions with others.
Positive things for today: It’s a beautiful day, the sun is shining and I have a list of things to accomplish today that will push me towards by goals! :)
I think I handle them quite good right now. I take them from a psychological point of view what makes them interesting for me. I offer help and an ear, but if they don´t want help but only mourning partners, I cut them away. I don´t do this all day, but if this is very important to me, I cut them away.
Execute at least one of the steps on one of the negative people.
I cut away my brother (as always). I don´t talk to him about cleaning the flat. Only light themes. We block out the cleaning of the flat and I hate it. It makes me lazy, too. But cleaning alone makes me feel trated unfair. It´s a lose-lose situation for me right now. I know I have to learn this for my own, my brother can´t help me cpoing with this. I´m not grounded enough. I haven´t a clue… I think I first have to learn what why he is important in my life and for what in me he is a mirror for.
Identify at least one positive thing about your day.
I get my things done – here in the DPC, cleaning my laundry, cooking a wonderful meal and so on. It makes me feel very happy and sunshiny
How Can You Better Handle the Negative People (from Day 10)?
I usually discuss with them and share our positive experience. The common experience were the incidents where I used the law of attraction before. It could be an coincident to the person, but I have a few cases for them to refer to. What I wish is that they will have a better life, enjoy their life instead of worrying about all those negative thoughts and the things that will never happen. If they choose not to believe in me, then they just continue with their lives. The most important is that, I need to ensure that I’m not affected by their negative energy.
Fortunately, until today, I have met a few of negative people, but I’m not affected. In fact, their mindset changed to be more positive after knowing me. :) I feel glad that I could affect people to go on with better life.
Identify at least one positive thing about your day.
I just got back home from the contest. I won the 2nd runner-up in the speech contest. ^^ To me, it is good enough to get the 2nd runner-up. And one thing, I found out that i didn’t even feel the nervousness before the contest. It could be good or bad intepretation, I guess. Some said, if you feel nervous, that shows that you care of the contest. So, does it mean that I didn’t care of the contest? =.=” Anyway, I know that I have tried my best. :D
The best way I can think of to deal with the negative people in my life is to not take it personally. They aren’t trying to hurt me or get one over on me, they’re just not in happy places in there lives and that’s not my problem to fix. I can be supportive, and there when they need me, but won’t get too emotionally involved.
I’ve been putting this into practice every time I’ve gone to work since day 10, (so about a day and a half) and it seems to be working.
Positive things:
Today (or yesterday since I’m getting to this late !)
I’m house sitting for a friend who lives in the woods, so her cat and I spent a sunny afternoon in the living room watching birds on the deck!
I need to surround myself with positive people. I need to make a job change and get into a happier environment.
Positive for the day – Hubs, myself and youngest daughter played a round of miniature golf–It was nice to be outside in the sunshine and breathing the fresh air. It was fun working on good putts and making crazy shots:)
I too try to avoid people who are negative and let them know that I don’t accept their negative and won’t be influenced by them.
The negative person is my mother. Her criticism sometimes sends me back to a place of fear, remebering young childhood when I was powerless to stand up to her. Today I will reject all negativity that comes from her, and classify it intellectually as her baggage, not mine. Just like she offers me household objects that she no longer needs, and I can either take them or say that I have no use for them, I will do the same with the negativity offered. Only, ALL of the negativity will be something I have no use for. I will try to offer a gift to her each time I visit, which for me, is the gift of listening. She talks nonstop about nonsence, but I just listen to everything and it makes her happy, because few other people will tolerate listening to her.
A positive thing about today is that I plan to go visit my mother, after not seeing her since December, and it was my choice to do so. I am not feeling negative about the upcoming visit as I typically would in the past, whenever I was going to see her. I attribute that to the work I have done to bring myself to a stronger place with exercising my choices regarding how to direct my thoughts, including the choice of accepting or rejecting offers from others, whether the offers be of objects or thoughts.
With my friends I think it’s currently best to just stay out of their way as much as possible until the finals are over and hope that the negativity will lift together with the stress. I understand we’re all under strain and don’t feel like bringing this subject up right now.
If afterwards nothing changes I can try talking to them or just try and distract from unpleasant topics.
Mum and Dad I guess I may be able to talk to. Ask for a slightly more supportive attitude. They may be unaware of their damaging beliefs.
With my siblings I think I myself need to open up more and work on my communication skills. Try and find topics that interest them that don’t involve slagging people off. They do too much of that and I find that very negative.
Apart from that I have purged the most negative people from my life and am working on strengthening positive relationships.
Positive Things
Waking up and having a nice relaxed morning with a good breakfast and lots of cuddles with my boyfriend.
Not much else yet, seeing as the day’s still young :)
Since the most negative person in my life is my boss, I can just cut him out of my life. I try to not let his comments hurt me as I know they are a reflection of how he really feels about his life and not mine.
Sometimes he says something on the wrong day and the rest of my day is shot as I wallow in negativity. I am trying to work on that.
Since today is Sunday, I will try to see how things go on Monday.
My Daily Positivity
Morning hugs and kisses
A clean house
Trying to deal with Daylight Savings Time :rolleyes:
When someone is unnecessarily mean, what I tell myself is that their own life must not be so good for them to treat others like this. In doing that, I begin to understand a bit of where they are coming from, and the compassion warms my heart and harsh feelings tend to dissipate from that.
Best of luck!! I know you can do it! :D
How Can You Better Handle the Negative People (from Day 10)?
Generally, what I will tend to do is to lessen contact with them. Other times we will talk about trivial matters or I will simply listen to what they have got to say without much emotional investment.
I am actually inspired by how some of you guys handle negative people, especially Dilip Kumar, ASLO and Lottie. Thank you for your insightful ideas! Acceptance and humor are truly some of the best ways to deal with negative people. They are not the easiest things to do though, and sometimes a lot of effort is required, especially when I am in contact with negative people (parents, superiors) who have the power (money, authority) to directly affect my well-being. Also, for me, humor is something that I will have to develop more of. :)
Identify at least one positive thing about your day.
Contrary of how I generally feel towards my parents (they are rather negative), they actually offered to help me find tuition jobs which is something I am rather grateful about.
With people who are in my life, like my family , I could spend less time with them, meditate and have a positive attitude. When the conversation is going in a negative direction I could steer it towards positivity. If that doesn’t work I could stop the conversation by leaving the room.
With friends who don’t NEED to be in my life I can do the same, as well as focus on building friendships with positive people.
With my colleague I can make a joke out of it.
With my son I will work on getting to see things in a positive light. Can read about NLP to help me.
In all situations I think the best thing I can do is share the positive things in my life and be happy about them myself, inspiring others to do the same.
Also, I can use the negativity of others to remind me that I want to be a positive person.
Will let you know how it goes!
One thing I myself have learned is to give up control, and trying to help. Instead just be the best person you can be, and it’s bound to rub off, eventually. Just don’t let them rub off you! :P
Sounds like you have your bases covered though! I look forward to hearing about how it goes!
Hi Irvin,
I’ve just been reviewing all my comments for today’s task (what I have learned) and I saw your response. Sorry I didn’t reply earlier, but I just want to thank you for your kind words! :) xxx
when i meet my brother who is a great passive person i just keep myself calm & my thinking positive even in arguments , i try to convince my brother which is right & he should follow it.sometimes he agrees & stay silent, which means he was thinking wrong. :clap:
My aim, if I notice someone being negative, is to silently thank that person for being a mirror for my own negativity. Their behaviour helps me realise how unattractive and futile my own negativity is. If someone is being negative, I see it as an alarm sounding – a reminder for me to be conscious of how my negativity affects both myself and others. So, other people being negative is a good practice for me, and I can assure you I need a lot of reminders and practice!!
I have to say that much of my life has been about noticing and changing my own negativity. I have been most helped when someone gently reminds me (often with humour) that there are other ways of seeing the world. I am SO profoundly grateful for all the help I have had and consider myself to be very lucky. What helps me too, is the thought that negative feelings are just ‘weather’ – they will blow away if I don’t dwell on them – these feelings are not all of who I am – there is always room for other more positive feelings to flow in.
Obviously, when I am feeling vulnerable myself, I avoid negativity in others – mainly because being negative has been my default position for so long and it would be so easy to join in. I avoid it mostly by simply not engaging with the negative statements and trying to steer the conversation towards lighter topics.
So today, I am really going to focus on noticing my own negative thoughts, words and deeds – and when I notice them, in my imagination I will give them a hug and then let them go. Wish me good luck!
One positive thing – I was awakened early this morning by birdsong and when I looked out of the window a blackbird was singing it’s little heart out on top of a tree in my garden. I felt so proud that he had chosen my tree!
Lottie, your post is wonderful and 100 % of what I think, too. Thank you for reminding me :love:
I also agree with your post.. its should be able to help out a lot for any negative thoughts..
Regarding my parents, I’ll try getting involved even more in the housework, at least this way they’ll get the feeling that they have less to do, so maybe they’ll be a bit more relaxed and therefore more optimist.
As for my friend, I’ll do what I’ve always done – try and make her see the world from a more positive point of view- and if it really doesn’t change anything, probably I’ll have to keep the distance whenever possible (which seems pretty hard at the moment, given the fact that she’s one of my closest friends).
The spoonful of positivity for today: I found out that the exam simulation results won’t count in any calculation of future grades. It took a huge weight off my chest.
Ever seen an ostrich bury it’s head in the thinking that if it can’t see you, you can’t then see it…that’s its personal enclosure, where it feels safe….leads me to wonder, should we too close our eyes thinking the same way?
Definitely not!
In the wee hours of this sunny Sunday…i got this though…would like to share it with y’all
The heart is positioned in front and the small of the brain from where we think and react at the back…for too long we’ve allowed the forlorn negative people reside in the heart…though now its time for a turn-around…its time to displace the illegal tenants of the heart to the mind…as the heart deals emotionally where as the mind deals practically….this is for those negative people who are there to always be around your life…the journey from the heart to the mind isn’t an easy one. though the anticipation of the ecstasy of reaching the destination, makes for the difficulty en route
To start off this journey i think i would constantly maintain a mindset of having the power within me to ward off any negative energy with my internal radiance….for what i create is what i beget…the law of charges doesn’t work here…if i create negative energy to counter negative energy, i wouldn’t repel it but rather summon its presence in my life….so if i create positive energy, i would actually repel its presence in my life!…. :D
“ALSO’s Sunday positive”
Living your life with the fear of the pain that the negative people may cause to you isn’t living life at all…it masks the joy of the moments shared with positives around you….so don’t lets bother to be an ostrich today, let spread out our wings and be the care-free sky lark soaring with the wind……for the world is YOUR playground!
” if i create negative energy to counter negative energy, i wouldn’t repel it but rather summon its presence in my life….so if i create positive energy, i would actually repel its presence in my life! ”
I couldn’t agree anymore.
:D
“…for what i create is what i beget.”
Wisely said! And it’s not just a matter of spirituality and mindset, but also of activities such as work/study/relationships/ etc.: what you create is what you get, you crop the fields you’ve sown.
Yup the same philosophy works in every side of life.
Very true… We reap what we sow… whether it is negative or positive, we get back what we put out.
Has anyone seen “Invictus”? It’s a movie about Nelson Mandela. His attitude was exactly this, that you cannot fight hatred with more hatred, that the forgiving has to start somewhere or the pain will never end.
It’s a fantastic, immensely inspiring movie. I recommend it to absolutely everyone, because it really shows how kindness and forgiving can change everything.
No, not heard about that movie….
thanks for the suggestion though, would sure try to get my hands on it… :D
Thanks for being there on this challenge and providing so many of us here with your feedback
God Bless
Ignore and influence them with your positivity.
Well, this is hard, I actually care about them…
Probably, just listen to what they say but not to absorb and digest what they have said………
Smile and pray for them maybe……..
well, read articles related to this and deal with it.
positive things:
-accompany dad.
– receive greetings from a friend.
-had a good time with dance companion.
-found the passion.
-had good experience and will learn from it.
I usually just stop the relationship with the negative people before they get too close and become a part of my life. If one of my friends starts complaining or grumbling or something like that, I give them some time to spill it and then change the subject. I noticed that when you’re dealing with a negative person, your positive response can make them confused and stop their negativity toward you.
As I’ve already mentioned, I don’t have any negative people around, thank Goodness for that. Sometimes I myself get negative and pessimistic – then, I’m trying to “change the subject” and think about something positive and nice.
Good thing of the day: I had 3 great teaching sessions at work.
How Can You Better Handle the Negative People?
First of all, I think that categorizing people as negative and positive is not a good thing to do. Because every time you will meet them, you are going to judge them and act accordingly to it always.
Secondly if there are some ‘negative’ people in your life, even then, running off is not the right way to handle them, because they will keep coming back into your life (if not them then other will). So, it’s better to handle them wisely and with right mind-set:
1. We have to accept the way people are. We certainly cannot change other people and their behavior. But once we accept them, then only we can generate compassion, kindness and love for them, which in return can help them to overcome their negativity.
2. Start noticing the positive things about them and let them know either directly or indirectly.
3. Try not to see their negativity every time you meet them. Coz
3.1 You are sending them the vibe which will make them to behave negatively.
3.2 Sub-consciously you are also going to behave with them accordingly.
So the chain of action and reaction will never break.
Execution of this process:
I met my one friend who does not feel good about himself. So I talked to him and after telling him some good things about him (casually, like how nice he plays guitar and sing, requested him to orga nize a jamming session and call me to join) he started feeling good and went smilingly :D . I even inspired him to start writing a blog.
Observation of the interaction:
It was obviously more positive. We are usually hi, hello friends but the last conversation made us closer to each other. :hug:
Improving the interaction:
Well! I think that we can be more personal next time. Share our common problems (like, no girlfriend ;) :mrgreen: , studies :rolleyes: etc.)
One positive thing about the day: :dance:
I wrote lyrics for a song. :) Actually the song is in Bengali, so the music is same but the lyrics are in Hindi with a different theme/concept.
I really like the way you think, especially the part in which you said that we are unconsciously sending negative vibes if we categories people and therefore we determine the other person to behave accordingly. Nicely said, Dilip. :)
Thank you Lina !! :D
Beautiful comment. I admire your way of thinking and totally agree, I’m uncomfortable with categorizing other people so harshly, and often enough they never fit entirely into one category anyway… Many people in my life aren’t at the top end of the positive scale, but I would never call them outright negative… some of their beliefs are damaging and hurtful to me, in other ways they may be incredibly inspiring.
And your attitude can massively change the way people react to you, it’s so true, but very hard to see sometimes… we love placing the blame, when we can change so much just by changing ourselves, by a “simple” shift in attitude… (which can also be incredibly hard XD) we can completely turn our and other people’s world upside down.
I just try to avoid as much as possible talking with them. Even if i am put into any situation that i can’t avoid talking with them, i will talk to them only about the general topic like about the various places to visit in the city as i am very new to that city, about the restaurants and hotels where me and hubby can hang out…
Some times, i try to accept them like what they are, as i can’t expect them to think in my way since they are born and brought up in such circumstances where fame, money, social status are mainly important for them.
Positivity for the day :
I have made a to do list of jobs which i need to complete with in today. Hopefully i will do the same !!! :) Have a great day to all of them…:)
Current boyfriend is one big bag of negativity
Pree! I am sure he has many good qualities also. Everybody comes with a baggage. Just try to remember the good things you noticed about him, the first time you met each other. There must be pretty good reasons also why you chose him as your bf. ryt ?
I’ve been there :( My last relationship was 2 1/2 years of hell, even though I tried hard to make it work and convince myself of the positive sides of the relationship, but it just wasn’t working and I refused to see it, which severely damaged my self-confidence.
Ditching that relationship was a life-saving decision for me and I’m slowly recovering and currently in a very happy relationship with a great guy.
Yes, everyone comes with baggage, but if you’re fundamentally unhappy…it wasn’t working for me. I was unhappy at my very core and denying it severely damaged my self-esteem and trust in my gut feeling. Trying to remedy that at the moment.
I became a totally different person with him and turned into a complete bundle of raw nerves, it got so bad that even the smallest amount of negativity was enough to set me off in tears. I’ve never cried so much in my life as in those 2 1/2 years… I’m so glad I got out of it in time… before I completely destroyed myself.
1. I try to see the negativity as only one part of the person. Most everyone has something likeable about them, if you search hard enough.
That said, I try not to ask people for opinions and advice, or talk about personal matters, if their advice tends to be filled with negativity. Also, when people disparage or make fun of another person, I stay quiet or try to go elsewhere. Sometimes I speak up as devil’s advocate.
Probably people can find negativity in me as well, as a lack of optimism, presence of anxiety, or depressed mental state. I hope they don’t think this makes me undeserving of friendship.
3. Even though I was sad, I got a lot of work done today. Also I managed to wake up early.
Hello Chestnut,
I really liked what you said about trying to see negativity as only one part of a person and that most people have something likeable about them. This is what I try to do too. Like you, I don’t feel comfortable about dismissing people from my life if they are being negative as I have been fortunate enough to have had friends who have helped me when I have been through bleak and negative periods.
I think you are very deserving of friendship – particularly because you are humble enough to realise that none of us are perfect! Well done for noticing your own negative traits and I wish you good luck with transforming them – you are not alone.
I think this is quite a good attitude to have and very true. I find it hard to draw a line between negative and positive people because many are both, sometimes only in a few small details, but yes, almost everyone has something good about them, no matte how small, and if you manage to focus on that I’m very impressed. I admire your attitude :)
Your strategies also sound very sensible.
Well, some say prayer. I just accept them where they are that this particular moment in their lives. What else can you do. Everyone walks their own path.
You are so right, everyone walks their own path anyway ! we cannot control others so it´s best to concentrate on ourself !
I’ve fallen behind in my responses, so I’ll try to catch up.
Who inspires me and why: The father of my best friend back in high school (he’s now deceased). He was in an accident when he was 18 that left his left arm paralyzed. But that didn’t stop him from doing everything from fixing cars to building things. He was a devoted and loved high school English teacher, who also taught other teachers how to teach writing. He was in middle age when he was in another accident, from which he almost didn’t recover. This accident removed some of his mobility. Despite all of this, he was optimistic and full of life. He finally passed after a fight with cancer. He’s inspring because he’d been through so much but was always full of life.
Who stresses me and why. There is someone at work who is extremely moody. One day, it’s hi, how you going. The next day, there is not acknowlegement of your presence but a grunt. I deal with this by not getting attached to her behavior…it really is about her, not about me at all ;) But it is stressful nonetheless.
How can I deal with this negativity. Lately, I’ve decided to treat her with compassion, and it seems to be doing wonders for my attitude and it reduces my stress somewhat. I also try to seek out more balanced and positive people. :angel:
Well, I usually try to ignore/ don’t show interest in the conversation when they start with the negativity, I apply this in my job quite often. Also what I could do and I have actually done it before is to mention positive things instead, I think it is good because in some way they reflect about it. But I think the best way is simply spend less time with them, I can do that especially with the friends I have. My next objective is make new positive friends; I need to keep in contact with positive and energised people, willing to face life with a smile and positive approach. Today I won’t be in contact with any negative people at all, but the action item that I will do soon is to attend to some meetups in my city related to positive mindset to meet new people.
Today’s positive thing: I just talked to my best friend, who just gave birth to her fist baby, I am so happy for her.
I agree with spending less time with those who are negative influences and, more importantly building more positive relationships.
I’m currently working on that myself, I just recently contacted an old school friend because she was a lovely creative and supportive person. She was so pleased to hear from me and we spent a great evening together :) I want to try and see her and some other people more often. I already spend as much time with my positive boyfriend as possible anyway :) I also hope to find more creative people to connect to, not sure how I’ll be doing that yet though…
Hi Ffion
Thanks for your comment.
It is great that you were able to contact your old friend again, I hope you see each other quite often. My plan to connect with positive people is to attend to meetups (www.meetup.com), there you can find group of people interested in X topic in your city. Have a look, maybe you can find a creative or positive group you can join.
Have a lovely day.
Diana
limit your conversations and set the boundaries with them
For the people I know who I find to be really negative, I’ll continue to avoid them as much as possible. Some people seem to thrive on their negativity, and most probably won’t change anytime soon, if ever.
For those who may only possess just a few negative traits, whom I don’t really consider to be a problem, I’ll continue to be myself around them. Maybe inspire them to be more positive based on my own actions? And always smile, ensure nobody I’m with feels neglected in social situations and so on. Ask them about what they’re doing too, such as a hobby or fitess activity, but avoid the topic of work. That can bring out the negativity in people if they don’t like where they’re working. Unless they’re doing work they love and don’t have any issues with the work or who they’re working with.
Today I only have a family lunch to go to. I don’t expect there to be any negativity to deal with, so can’t do too much.
Positive things today. Perfect weather, I’m ready for a late breakfast of red grapes, I’m inspired to complete another music, having just finished one yesterday, and my mother in law is cooking lunch. I’m quite certain it will be something I enjoy :)
Hi Glenn,
Just the family lunch and have great fun..!!! :) Your techique of dealing negative people is very good and i will also try to follow the same…
Yeah even i won’t ask about work when i meet my friends..:)
Thanks Vasundhara :)
Yes, it was a good day today. There are so many reasons to avoid making work a topic of conversation!
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