21DJC Day 4 – If You Are To Travel Back in Time to 3 Years Ago, What Advice Would You Give Yourself?

This is Day 4 of the 21-Day Journaling Challenge held in Nov 2011. The challenge is now over but you can do the tasks in your own time. Visit the overview page for all the challenge tasks.

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Hi everyone – Welcome to Day 4 of 21DJC! :)

Yesterday’s question was: “What is your ideal diet like?“. It was interesting reading your responses. Many of you seem to be in tune with what’s best for your body, which is great! Many of you stressed on a diet that’s filled in nutrition and void of empty calories since the latter does not benefit our body. Many of you are committed to removing unhealthy, junk food from your diet; At the same, a diet with high fruits and vegetables is a common vision across the board.

Ultimately all of us are different and have different needs, so go for the diet that you feel best about. There’s no need to feel compelled on a certain diet just because of what your parents, society, health magazines, or TV say.

If you eat something only to feel bad about it afterward, whether physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually, then it’s a cue that it’s probably not the ideal for you. This includes eating junk food on the spur of the moment, then beating yourself up over it or feeling “guilty” about it after that.

While you can argue that it’s a “treat” and you “deserve” it, the point is you yourself already acknowledge the food is bad and feel bad about eating it afterward. This in itself suggests a misalignment in your wants/needs that needs to be worked through, vs. allowing the conflicting behavior to perpetuate.

Either you have a candy bar because you *truly* feel it’s the best thing for your body, or you don’t have that. You can’t be thinking “this candy bar isn’t good” and still have that in your ideal diet. That doesn’t make any sense at all; it’s a contradiction in itself. Ideal means something that’s the highest of it all; something you acknowledge to be the best of the best for yourself.

In the end, your ideal diet should be one which you feel 110% emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually both in the short-run and in the long-run – nothing less than that. By having a clear idea of what your ideal diet is, it brings awareness to what you want to feed your body with. This makes it easier for you to achieve this goal in the long run.

While I have a vision of what my ideal diet is, I’m far from it at the moment – there are times when I go off track with my diet due to emotional eating, lack of my desired food, or circumstances. But the important thing is I always work on getting back on track. Being on your ideal diet may not happen overnight, but the important thing is you move closer towards it, and work on integrating it into your lifestyle, day by day. In time, you realize you are exactly where you want to be.

With that said, let’s now move to today’s question! ;)

21DJC Day 4

Today’s question is a fun one – one which involves some imagination and thinking outside of our current framework of time:

If You Are To Travel Back in Time to 3 Years Ago, What Advice Would You Give Yourself?

Time travel

How old would you be 3 years ago? What was happening at that time? What would you say to yourself? And why?

(Today’s question can be found in #21 of 101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself In Life.)

Your Task Today:

  1. Reflect and answer today’s question. There’s no word limit – whether minimum or maximum. Write as few or as many words as you want. It’s all up to what you want to express!
  2. Share your answer. After you are done writing, copy and paste your answer in the comments area and post it there.
  3. Check out other participants’ answers. Other participants will be sharing their answers too, so feel free to read and reply to their answers. This is a group course, so let’s support each other in these 21 days.
Look forward to reading your answers! :D

((Images: Empty book for journaling, Time travel))

258 comments
  1. 1. No more waiting, just break up with that guy already! No, he won’t be devastated. He’ll actually be fine pretty soon. And you’ll be as well.
    – Although this advice is personal and might seem irrelevant – this one would have been most valuable back then.

    2. Learn instead. Don’t worry about anything, just learn (more). Learn another language.
    3. Do interesting things. Meet people. Go for a walk. Often.
    4. Be in the moment. It’s a pretty great moment.
    5. Don’t worry.

    And it’s actually a pretty great moment 3 years later as well!
    The 2nd, 3rd, and 4th are quite universal for me – I could as well use them now. :-)

    The 5th would solve all of my problems. But it’s somehow impracticable to me.

    Overall, it wasn’t bad 3 years ago. And the advices, even if used properly, would not change those 3 years that much. The advices would be more about ensuring that everything is fine, and that I should be easier on myself, on my life, and enjoy it more.

  2. For this question, three years is really the perfect amount of time given the things that have happened in my life over the past three years.

    I started graduate school three years ago, and I had just serious committed to a romantic relationship with my significant other, after four years of being together. I wanted to devote a lot of time and energy to graduate school, since I was spending a lot of money to be there and had made the decision to go back to school after a great deal of thought. My significant other was mostly supportive of my desire to devote a great deal of time and energy to graduate school.

    But, as I began to do this, I definitely lost sight of devoting sufficient time and energy to my relationship. It almost always took a backseat to school, and it suffered for it– we fought and felt distant from one another. My significant other felt ignored and I felt unsupported. Now, one lesson I could take from this could be that I became overly preoccupied with school and that I should tell my three-years-ago self to remember what’s really important in life: the people we love.

    However, there was also a part of my that was doubting the serious commitment I had made. Was this person really someone I wanted to devote my life to, and spend the rest of my days with? To avoid answering that question, I spent more and more time doing schoolwork. I didn’t want to hurt my significant other, and I didn’t want to plumb the depths of my own doubts for selfish reasons, such as fear of what I would find out. So, I tended to ignore these feelings rather than address them.

    So, I would tell myself from three years ago not to be afraid of figuring things out. That the people we love really are the most important things in life (to me, at least), and that we have to make every effort to treat them that way. If we can’t, it might be sign that something is amiss with the relationship. At that point, I’d tell my former self not to be afraid of learning that something is wrong. It’s better to learn this about yourself than to live for years avoiding the truth.

  3. 3 years ago would tell my self not to be shy to start a conversation and accept myself the way i am no matter what , finally would stop comparing myself with other people nor do something because others are doing it

  4. If I could go back three years, I would say do not worry about a thing – your current relationship will blossom into THE relationship of my life (now engaged) – and do not worry about work – it just keeps getting better. It really does revolve around not worrying about the future – I am on the path to my dreams and I will get there if I just keep working hard and believing!

  5. To think of what advice I would have given to myself 3 years ago, I tried to remember whom I was back that time and I found myself being 22 years old girl who had been 1 year away from her homecountry in a small island with no local friends due to different views and attitude to life, family, best friends, being left by a person with whom she was extremely in love, and who had been trying to recover from 4 months non-stop 16 hr/day studying….
    Looking at this girl, I want to tell her:

    – Relax !

    – Life is so interesting and beautiful, why are you concentrating on negative things? This attracts even more negative energy !

    – Each person in your life is coming for a reason, some of them are making you be happy and some of them are making your stronger. Some people are not meant to stay in your life even if you want it so much, as they did whatever they were meant to do. Leave them and go further to meet a lot of other new interesting people.

    – Value relationship with you family and friends. Once you ruin them, it will be extremely hard to restore it back!

    – Never compare yourself with other people ! Comparing will make you being unhappy of what you don’t have and you will not be able to enjoy what you have !

    – Always try to find good things in people. Never say bad things about any person unless you are doing it in front of his face and he deserves it!

  6. Back to end of 2008, I will have a lot of advice to me:

    know you-self! Don’t be rush to do all the things, stop running aimlessly, look inside yourself, to find what kind person you are, what you really want, what you can do and what you can not;

    Dont run away. Accept your situation even if you dont like it ,face your problem. Problems will never be solved by running away. Be honest and be responsible to yourself.

    Set a clear goals for your life, career and relationship.If you haven’t a clear plan, you dont know where to go, all your effort will lead to wrong direction.tell fill in with effective strategy.

    Dont just notice things far away and ignore things you have, cherish the things around you that really important to your life: your family, your friend and your body and your position;

    Dont waste time worrying how people think of you or what I’m doing is stupid / losing face, think about how you can be more open and optimistic ;

    Be patient! Dont lose you pace, try to be a master of the time. once you set the goal, use you power and sometime have to wait. many wrong decision are made by impatience;

    Be confidence and happier. stop worrying about your behavior, stop compare yourself with other and feel inferior. Just look for thing you like, dont let other people control you.

    All these are what I have learned in the last 3 years.

  7. i would advice my self to have a better commitment towards bettering my life, and limits activity which does not or do a little advancement towards my life quality (such as gaming, too much watching movie, etc). Focus more on my study and get more motivated towards live.

  8. Don’t give up on learning about yourself, your values and where important others fit into your life. I could have left my unhealthy marriage 3yrs ago, however had I done that I possibly would not have found out why my marriage was and is unhealthy Now I am growing despite the unhealthy situation and have learnt so much more about myself. In learning these inspiring things I can now go forward and be of a better assistance to those important others who have been affected by this unhealthy relationship. Without this 3 years of personal growth I suspect that those important others would have had more to deal with due to a family split up than they have had to deal with along the way of the three years of learning. When I learn they also have the opportunity to learn and benefit themsleves. :!:

  9. Advice to self would be know yourself better and not dive into things for selfish reasons. Be Grateful for all that you have and that you are and tell your nearest and dearest all the things in your heart even the dark ugly things that invade your mind from time to time.

    • I like these thoughts as they are along the same lines of my own thinking :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

  10. If you are to travel back in time to 3 years ago, what advice would you give yourself?

    Thinking back, three years ago would have been November 2008 and I would have been 23. Things have changed so much since then. I was in a much different place mentally and emotionally at that time. Knowing what I would know now I would ask myself to please stand up for myself and assert myself with those people that were around me at the time. My roommate at the time, my boyfriend, and my parents. My inability (unwillingness?) to assert myself with them caused me a lot of heartache. Much of it, I think, could have been avoided if I had just done what I thought was right for me instead of keeping quiet and making others happy. There are several other things I would probably tell myself, but I think that’s the most important.

  11. Life isn’t as serious as your mind makes it out to be.

    Please do not waste anymore energy analyzing everything and everyone in your life. Separate yourself from your thoughts and learn to listen to your heart over your head. Trust your intuition and remember that everything in your life arises from an inner need. Whatever current situation you are facing has been chosen for the evolution of your consciousness and is put in front of you for the greater good of your being. Even if things seem challenging these experiences will make you into a better person. You sooner have the wisdom to understand this and you will become more at peace with yourself and the world around if you can practice that state of allowing. Instead of questioning it, trust that there is a greater purpose for its existence and allow whatever is supposed be to fall into place.

    At this time 3 years ago, I was 20 and I was in my first semester of college. All within the year of 2008, I had battled depressed, left an intensely romantic yet chaotic relationship, experimented with drugs and then morphed myself into a hardworking dedicated student. It was around this time of year that I became involved with one of my classmates while still being completely intertwined with my ex. I tore myself apart for nearly a year with all this drama. It was self-inflicted pain so unnecessary for me at a time when my schooling needed me the most.

    You can truly make yourself sick if you think about your life too much. I was young, unconscious and under the control of my ego 3 years ago. I didn’t know how to behave any differently.

    As we get older, some of us seek to understand why the mind creates harmful mental abstractions that lead to our suffering. Others carry on completely identified with their mind, never awakening to the realization that we are not our thoughts. It usually takes some sort of extreme downfall in one’s life before their identity shifts from ego to awareness. This was case for me.

    This question provoked quite a response for me. I found it brought up some old history, stuff I’m not proud of, but it reinforced that these experiences I had made me into who I am today. And if I could have given myself this advice to myself during that time in my life, I honestly don’t even think I would have known what to do with it. I was too caught up in my own thoughts. I wouldn’t have understood the concept. Sometimes I guess you just need the experience to extract the value of the lessons behind it.

  12. Don’t just do things because everyone do it or want to do it ; do the things you want to do yourself; and think more before take actions it’s your life live it without regrets.

  13. I would be 21years old 3 years back and i have just graduated from college.

    The first thing i would do is to convince myself not to join the company i’m with currently. It’s a manufacturing company and i’m practically getting calls 24/7 till it’s interfering a lot with my personal life. I would perhaps tell myself to pursue my passion at that age (not like it’s too late now) because i have lesser commitments & i’m fresh out of college with a strong drive to work.

  14. Three years ago would take me fresh out of college. It was a very important stage in my life. I followed what was stated by the society …the surrounding….as the right thing to do. I went to multiple interviews, focused on getting the best job and did in fact get the job i was eye-ing for. Got a great engineering job with an awesome salary, met great people and started spending lots of time and energy on career progress.

    If i were to travel back in time to 3 years ago, i would sit myself down and have a heart to heart talk. I would convince myself that monetary comfort is no comfort at all, that the happiness it provides is fleeting, that i need to get done with being practical and be real!

    I would tell myself to enroll in the Peace Corps or the red cross or a similar organization. Spend my youth amassing relationships and experiences instead of dead presidents printed on paper. Give back instead of hoarding. Learn and apply the concept of abundance rather than limitedness.

    I would tell myself that i need to open my heart..and be more vulnerable. That would probably be super hard for my to listen to at that time, but ….i have figured out that it just gets harder with time. Told myself to abandon the fake armor of cockiness and pride, to embrace humility and start experiencing life. I would tell myself that getting security in a bank account will not make me happy in the future…..the high will not sustain….the numbers will not suffice.

    If i were to go back three years, i would tell myself to not stop learning. To find something which might not monetarily benefit me, but fill me intellectually and spiritually. I would stop worrying so much about how i would pay for school. I would tell myself to believe….believe that anything can be done. I would tell myself not to limit my dreams….but to continue striving!

    If i were to go back 3 years, i would tell myself to focus on things which really matter. I would tell myself to focus on finding truth. That logic and reasoning are not always everything. To combine the efforts of my heart and mind. I would tell myself to try new things…..be open to new relationships….not to have those stereo types so stuck in my head. I’d re-affirm that the most important things in life are relationships…with self, with God, with people….and that they are all interlinked.

    Once i told myself all this, i would tell myself just to be happier. To read more, be wiser, eat healthier and play more :)

    • Thanks Taffi for what you have written ! This is exactly what I feel now and these are the most right words that you can ever tell yourself !

  15. I should have studied more. I wasted my time a lot before.

  16. I would had say to my self:
    Dear Magdalena, since you´re a very emotional person, please remmember that regarding to your bussines, finances, job…etc. Never use your fellings whenever it takes to make a desition.
    Profesional life has to be apart of what we want to do or like, sometimes it just has to be done, no matter what.
    As long as you obey your fellings in this subjet, the less chances you´ll have to succed. Responsability is not allways a pleasent feling but allways will bring you a great sence of joy; the pride to know you have done what it was expected from you.

  17. 1) Read, read, read about the job that I have now.

    2) Not eat so much junk food.

    3) Not stop doing my vision boards.

  18. Be yourself. Your life is about to change, and if you hold tight to your principles you will be ok. The decisions you are about to make will affect your life forever, so be present in the moment. Don’t act at this as if these are small decisions – the whimsy of a 26 year old. This is the real deal.

    Be strong and gentle, yet strong and courageous.

    Be yourself.

  19. If I could go back in time three years, I would give myself two life changing pieces of advice.

    The first would be NOT to pursue a master’s degree. I graduated six months ago and I have still been unable to find a better position, my student loans are no longer in deferment status and they payments are going to cause me significant financial strain. I was trying to further my education in hopes of gaining a career but now I just worry that all I did was put myself an additional $30,000.00 in debt.

    My second piece of advice would be to not ruin a long time friendship with by allowing myself to become romantically involved with that person. Against my better judgment, I allowed a platonic friendship to become something more and now I have neither friend nor lover. I really miss my friendship.

    How I wish I could turn back the hands of time but I guess there is nothing left to do now but learn from my mistakes.

  20. When I first read this question, I was very intrigued. What would I tell myself if I could go back in time? I have asked myself this on more than one occasion, and my answers are a little touchy in some areas, because if I could go back in time I am not sure I would be where I am now at all.

    Three years ago I was 25 years old and living in a house full of pirates.I was just starting to bounce back from losing everything: I had been kicked out of the house, a friend had wrecked my car and I was just barely making a living working at a local radio station. I was having fun because I had nothing left to lose. I didn’t care about anything, but inside I was heartbroken about everything.

    First thing first, I would encourage myself to stop drinking immediately! The best thing that’s ever happened to me is my decision to stop drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes. It’s been over a year now, and I feel so good! I remember this time of my Life, and all the hangovers, and dramatic events that come with partying and I wish I would have been able to sincerely convince myself to stop as early as possible.

    I would have encouraged myself to settle all the issues related to that car crash as soon as possible, and to not be afraid to do so. This weighed over my head for 2 years, and when I finally got the bills and everything taken care of it felt so good! I suffered mentally for so long for no good reason. Everything worked out fine in the end, and I could have been free much earlier.

    I would have told myself to prepare for the most important relationship of my Life. My partner and I were just meeting at this time. I can’t decide if this would come as a warning, or a “get excited” message. Without this relationship, I would not have my daughter today. But I have to say that I would never want to relive all of the drama that we have been through. Relationships can be very tough. I am very blessed that we are where we are today, that we have made it here… but it has definitely been a rocky road.

    I would tell myself to ask for a raise at the radio station. I really loved that job, but I was never able to make a viable living working there. I never had the guts to ask for more money and eventually I just burned out and left when I found better work. I would also make sure I made time for schooling, because I had the time to do so then. :)

    I would make sure I didn’t take shit from anyone, and I would let myself know that I would have peace one day. I really would let myself know how good Life is without alcohol. I would whisper to myself how beautiful my daughter is, and how Loved I am by my partner. I would let myself know that I am happy and thriving.
    It feels really good to write this answer. Three years ago things were tough, but I have conquered so much since then, in just a year and a half really, and it is remarkable to me. I am truly blessed!

  21. Get some child care and read up on simple ways to be happy.
    You don’t need to change your circumstances, just the way you see things.
    Don’t assume you know the symptoms of Hashimotos – they can change – get your levels checked regularly and don’t accept not feeling good.

  22. I would advise myself “to set on the search for my life’s purpose right away and to become a man of action. Dreams are great, ideas are good, but only thing that really matters is execution. So start acting on your thoughts while you keep the search on.”

  23. Sailingawaytoday 14 years ago

    Wow, what a fantastic question. I would have to say that I would give myself 11 things to do differently.
    1. Post the following on my wall and practice repeating it to myself, all day long. “Next time you feel any discomfort…stop in the middle of it and say to yourself. “This discomfort that I am feeling is nothing more than my own awareness of resistance. Time for me to relax and breathe. Relax and breathe. Relax and breathe.” (Abraham Hicks).
    -My doing this action in the last few weeks has made a major change in my thinking and going through my daily life. My life seemed to get even easier more balanced.
    2. Don’t worry; things will change but, everything is going to be all right.
    3. When feeling down repeat the mantra at least 10 times, (I count this off on my fingers for the physical connection to my body.) “I am feeling so much better or I am feeling better or I am feeling so much joy.” Do it at least 10 times every hour or so. The shift is amazing and almost instant.
    4. Save more money.
    5. Change storage units find a cheaper and closer one.
    6. Call my sister or write her at least once a week.
    7. Walk at least 10 blocks a day without fail.
    8. Do more volunteer work do something at least once a week.
    9. Write at least a couple of hours a day without excuses.
    10. Practice my favorite dance routine daily.
    11. Maintain a standard meditation schedule consistently.

  24. I would go back and see if I ticked that one box in that particular application form because I cannot remember what I did. But otherwise, there is no advise I can give myself. I do what I can and most of the (important) decisions I make work out in the long run. My life has tremendously changed in the last three years and the only advise I can think of is “keep going”, but that is nothing new really.

  25. Bilal Kamoon 14 years ago

    21DJC#4: If You Are To Travel Back in Time to 3 Years Ago, What Advice Would You Give Yourself?

    I’m 17 years old now. That means that 3 years ago I was 14. At that age, I wasn’t even started on my personal growth journey, neither did I know anything about blogs or blogging.

    Back then, I was a typical teenager. I used to eat junk food, sleep late, watch Tv, etc… only to name a few.

    Fortunately, amazing people like Celes popped into my life and made me realize how miserable my life was. And ever since then, I am constantly growing and improving in every aspect of my life.

    I like how things turned out in the end, and I wonder if things would be different if I gave my 14 years old self some advice.

    I don’t regret anything that happened to me. I believe that every experience is a growth opportunity but I think there is some things I wish somebody have told me when I was younger:

    1. It doesn’t matter what people think of you
    When I was young, I used to give so much importance to what others would think of me.

    I’d never get out of the house until I’ve combed my hair, and made sure I look ok.

    Later on, I realized that it doesn’t matter what other people think of you. Everyone will have an opinion about you, but this opinion is hardly ever based on who you really are. Because most people will never spend enough time with you to get to know you.

    2. Enjoy the present moment
    When I was younger I used to spend a lot of time wishing days away so that it could be weekend, or that I could be old enough to drive or party.

    Of course, I later realized that RIGHT NOW is the only moment we’re ever living. So we better embrace it while it lasts.

    3.Start your own business
    I already did that anyway at age 16. But I wish I started it earlier. I would’ve made much more progress by now.

    Finally, I’m grateful for all the people who was there to give me advice when I needed it. These people include: my parents, teachers, best friends, Steve Pavlina, and of course Celes :mrgreen:

  26. 3 years ago I was 25. Our youngest baby was 8 months old and I had a hernia that I kept putting off to have repaired. First I would tell myself that the hernia would have been much smaller if it was taken care of right away. Also don’t tie your tube you will regret it in 3 years.

    Most importantly trust your gut instinct. Believe in yourself and don’t worry about what others may think. Stop trying to do to much at once. Live. Laugh. Love.

  27. Three years ago I was just starting a my new job. I had just left an old job which I felt was confrontational and stressful. I very much disliked that job.

    I remember feeling confident around my new coworkers.

    I would tell myself that change comes slowly. I would tell myself to develop a new habit each month to improve my life. I would tell myself that trying to take on 5 or 6 difficult projects at a time it too difficult and will usually result in not much progress in any area.

    I would tell myself to not be so hard on myself. I would tell myself to take it easy and don’t worry so much. I would tell myself that everything is going to be alright.

    I would tell myself to begin drawing everyday.

    I would tell myself that it’s okay to stop hanging around certain people if they make you feel like shit. I would tell myself it’s okay to leave behind old friend’s who I no longer feel a strong connection with. I would tell myself I don’t need permission from anyone to do that.

    I would tell myself to save money.

    I would tell myself to begin meditating. I would tell myself that happines will not come from outside. It will come from within.

    I would tell myself to not hesitate so much. I would tell myself to jump on opportunties when they present themselves.

  28. I was 23 and I was in a relationship with this wonderful man for more than a year. I made a lot of mistakes ever since, so I’d really warn myself about it. Never try to change a man, never try to suffocate him with too much love and reproaches, because he will eventually run away. Don’t try to control him, don’t be mad if he’s not always around, because we all need our time and intimacy. Don’t yell at him after him not calling in days, wasting precious moments on fights, better tell him how much you missed him. But my most important advice is… you don’t need a man who makes you feel worthy and happy, you can do that for yourself. If you are happy and fullfilled and at peace with yourself, then you can love another person unconditionally, freely. So work on your dependence issues, because sooner or later you’ll lose him and you’ll feel like your whole life just ended, that you’re dead inside. And it’s not true. So don’t waste too much time grieving and don’t put your life on hold. Life is too short.

  29. 3 years ago (2008 September), I was 20 and had finished my second year (sophomore) in university and started my gap year. I obtained an internship placement at a medical research lab and started working there; I quit my part-time position working in a sports arena’s concession (food stand) and had to stop most of my volunteering engagement on campus because my internship was off-campus and far away. Also at that moment, I wasn’t sure if chose the right program in the university and wanted to find out where I want to head to, and possibly considering switching to a different program (to business administration from science).

    Honestly I don’t know what I would tell myself. I was trying to figure out my life, and looking back – I don’t regret too much with my major decisions. Few that I can think of – the things I wish I did when I was 20:

    – to practice driving and getting a license
    – volunteering with a non-profit organization
    – take some “fun” courses that are of my interest and outside of my program
    – taking up a language

    – Always look forward to things that come up, and go for them :)

  30. Three years ago I was 23 yrs old. I was a year out of college and had just started working in my first post-college job as a sales rep in the natural products industry. If I were to meet my past self, I would give him the following advice:

    Don’t become stuck by comfort and complacency. Do not feel obligated or trapped by this job but let it be a stepping stone to something else. You are young, use your time wisely and experience life so that you can discover your what your passions are.

    Stop over thinking and over-analyzing your thoughts, feelings, and situations. Quiet your mind and become adept at tuning in to your own intuition. Listen to your heart and fuck the seeds of doubt and circular thinking that come from the brain, the ego. You are the commander of your destiny, make it an adventure.

    Do not live an unlived life. Do not live in fear of falling or failing, these are experience through which we learn. Open your heart to new thoughts, new ideas, and new experiences. Live life unabashedly. Do not let yourself or anyone else hold you back from experiencing. You are significant, you are love. Love others and work consistently and diligently at loving yourself. Loving yourself self will allow your heart to overflow with love to give to others.

    At 26 years old I would do things differently. I would make different decisions about jobs and relationships and would not revel in the comfort of either, knowing in my heart that something else is out there that will better resonate with my being and be congruent with my desires.

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