This is Day 2 of the 21-Day Journaling Challenge held in Nov 2011. The challenge is now over but you can do the tasks in your own time. Visit the overview page for all the challenge tasks.
Hi everyone – Welcome to Day 2 of 21DJC! :)
Yesterday’s question was an age-old question – “What would you do if you have one million dollars?” Many of you had interesting responses. Some of you wanted to buy a nice, large house. Some of you wanted to use it to invest and grow more money. Some of you wanted to renovate your current home. Some of you wanted to start up a charity / NGO / organization that supports a humanitarian cause of your choice. Some of you wanted to travel around the world. Some of you wanted to give a portion to your family and friends, to enable them in their goals.
Whatever it is that you wrote, know that they represent inner wishes that you’ve been wanting to fulfill, but have yet to do so. Yesterday’s question was actually to draw out these innermost desires and bring them to your awareness.
And the interesting thing is, you don’t have to till you have $1 million before you can fulfill these desires.
What do I mean?
Goals represent your inner desires. One way to satisfy these desires is to achieve the actual goals themselves. However, you can only do that when you have $1 million in your arsenal (since it takes time to manifest). By having a goal that has to be deferred (i.e. you can’t work on your $1 million goals yet because you haven’t achieved $1 million), it’ll only disempower you and prevent you from living in the now.
The more empowering way is to (a) distill to those very desires and (b) find ways to realize them this very moment.
Look at what you wrote for yesterday’s $1 million question. Ask yourself – (a) What desires do these goals represent? (b) How can I realize these desires, right away today?
For example, say one of your $1 million goals is to travel around the world. In reality, you may not be able to travel to any country that you want now because of financial reasons.
However, remember that this isn’t the point. If you look at the desire this goal represents, it possibly reflects a desire to break free and take a breather, due to a prolonged period of not resting. The answer to realizing that then, would be to start taking breaks, even short vacations or just having the weekend off (see Habit #2 of 8 Habits of Highly Effective People). It may reflect a desire to be exposed to new cultures and grow from the multitude of experiences, of which you can already start doing now by getting out there to meet people of other backgrounds.
Another example – Say one of your goals is to allocate $X to your parents, as gratitude for bringing you up. You can already realize that now by sharing $Y every month, where $Y is a smaller amount than $X, adjusted to reflect how much you can spare for this purpose. You can be more generous towards them in your daily life. You can treat them to lunch/dinner/vacations, more so than you’re already doing now. Or if money isn’t a commodity at your disposal, you can do other things like prepare meals for them, write a card, spend more time to them, as acts of gratitude.
And so on and so forth the other $1 million goals.
There’s no need to put life on hold till [X event] happens. That’ll be to put off living. Think about how you can make your desires happen now. This is what it means to live in the now.
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Let’s now move on to the question for Day 2 of 21DJC! ;)
21DJC Day 2
Day’s 2 question is one of my personal favorites:
If You Are To Do Something For Free For the Rest of Your Life, What Would It Be?
Would you sleep and do nothing? Would you pursue a certain passion? What would that passion be? Would you be pursuing a particular craft? What would that be? Would you be traveling around the world? Would you be blogging? What about? Would you want to pursue a humanitarian cause? What would it be? Would you be writing? What about?
Update: Some readers seem to have some confusion over how to interpret the question. Is the question supposed to mean what you would willingly do without receiving money for? Or is it suppose to mean what you would want to do because it does not cost anything?
My answer? The former. If I were to rephrase the question: “What would you want to do for the rest of your life if you are never paid for this work?” In other words, your life passion. Your life purpose. Hope that helps!
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I am absolutely convinced that every person should do this.
Why? First because giving you self makes the person a real human being, and second, because this is the perfect way you can expirience deep hapiness.
Probably my answer to the million dollars could aply to this one too. The activity is the same one:
Helping women in need. Why?
Is not that I dont value a lot men´s activitys or contribution in a family, I of course do, but at least in my country (México) the top responsability of the family relys on the mother, who not only has to go to work too, as well as her beloved husband, but needs to come back home to make the dinner, wash clothes, be chofer of the kids, and so and so much more. At the end of the day, when she is exahusted, she has to be the perfect lover…! Is that easy..?
A woman needs help to deal with all the responsabilitys she has, we dont born knowing, and every book we can read helps, every word listened in a course will help to improve as wifes, mothers, group activitys, etc. or what ever she is doing, every minute invested in resting time will produce fruits of patinence with the kids, happiness, good humor, personal apirience and beauty for her husband; every time she could have the chance to feed her inner self will be like a familiar investment.
I am complitely shure this is true because in deed I have benn working for free for many years with them, it has been the most rewarding activity ever…!
Not only the money make you feel the activitys are worthy, I consider my self so very blessed because I have the chance to do this for them, at the end of the day, each time I share some time with them I am the one who leanrs more and get back home happier.
Well, there are several things I already do for free, and I would do more of them:
teaching yoga, blogging, public speaking, writing, cartooning.
I would quit my job, travel more, and get more education.
I would set up a non-profit that would help people.
As I write this, I’m thinking that I should find a way to make my life more like this anyway. I need to find a way to design my own career doing the above things and make it work.
If I could travel the world for free that would be ideal for me! I love to travel and to be able to do it, with all expenses paid, even better! Another thing that make me so happy, would be to adopt 2 children and be able to be a stay at home Mom. Now you are probably thinking she wants to travel and be a stay at home Mom, well yes and for free I could do both!! :)
This question is kind of funny to me and a testing of my heart. I already do something for free – I volunteer full-time for my mother’s nonprofit ( http://www.erministry.org ). My husband and I (as well as my mother and father) are under financial strain because we work 40+ hours a week for free. It is our goal to get to a point where we can draw a paycheck while continuing the work we do, but I suppose if my husband were to draw a paycheck and we would be able to live a modest, yet comfortable life, I’d be willing to continue to work for free. I love what I do, helping people. Though most of my duties are administrative, the most rewarding volunteer work is when I am interacting with the people we help – seeing hope restored and lives changed.
I also enjoy spending much of my time crafting – scrapbooking, making jewelry, making journals. Making and selling these items are a great stress relief and initially I thought, “Yeah, if I could do something for free, I’d craft”.But selling my handcrafted jewelry brings a satisfaction. Now If I took the question as it wouldn’t cost me anything to craft, everything would be free – supplies, overhead expenses of crafting, classes – I’d choose to do crafting for free as well. Projects can get expensive. (by the way, if anyone is Christmas shopping http://www.newthingdesigns.etsy.com )
I think I’m thinking on too small of a scale though. If I could do something for free, for the rest of my life…..I wouldn’t have to think about the cost of living for me and my family – I would continue to volunteer, without the stress of paying bills, or making ends meet. I’d also choose to go earn a degree in nonprofit management if it were for free, so that I’d be more equipped to do my work.
If I were to do something for free for the rest of my life, I believe I would be the community service guy. What? Yes, I would go out into this beautiful world of ours everyday and help those in need. I would go out an canvass the area and offer someone worth more than money and that is my TIME. I would dedicate my time to lending a hand, giving wise advice, motivate individuals, and making lifelong friendships. I would also read more and transfer that knowledge to the world by my word of mouth. As Gandhi said, “We must be the change we want to see in the world.” I WILL be that change I wish to see in our WORLD.
I know I’m a few days behind with the questions but I will catch up. My apologies.
I’m not exactly sure how to answer this question. I understood it in two different ways. Is that something free in itself or am I doing it for free. If whatever I’m doing will be free to me then I’d travel the world and take photos and write about it then settle down in a beautiful town. That would bring me joy.
If it’s something free that I would be given a choice to do then it would be to write and learn.
i would like to counsel people, especially teenagers and youth, i love to see people living their lives to the fullest, i like to inspire and motivate people. counseling is something i love doing and can take the whole day without bothering about time. i am passionate about affecting life positively and making people maximized their potentials.
i would like to counsel people, especially teenagers and youth, i love to see people living their lives to the fullest, i like to inspire and motivate people. counseling is something i love doing and can take the whole day without bothering about time. i am passionate about affecting life positively and making people maximized their potentials. i love to give people hope and help them in the time of challenges. affecting lives positively is something i am passionate about.
I would help others: People. Animals. The Earth. I would do this in a variety of ways. There is no one way in which I would help. As an example: I would do my best to help people learn to tread more lightly on the Earth, to try to fix the environmental issues that are evident.
Honestly, If I could do anything my favorite thing is to travel and stay in nice places, eat good food. I would travel the world and report of the nice places to stay and the good restaurants. The only problem with this is I have a son and this would not quite fit into stability for him. I would rather work for a ministry and take care of my son and it wouldn’t get any better than that. Go on vacation on occasion traveling to other places.
I would encourage and inspire others to follow their hearts and find their true passion. I like to mentor and offer advice to people in their time of need. People often come to me for advice and I could never figure out why. I’m no different than they are so why would they be asking me. I’ve just learned that this is a special place for me because my opinion and thoughts actually help others and are appreciated. There’s nothing worse than living your entire life and not know what you were meant to do. That’s why I am actively searching to find my true self and what’s important to me.
This would be a great way to spend your life. helping others through life, helping them to realize why they are here and what they want, would be a very rewarding way for someone to spend their life.
This is a bit of an ambiguous question…do something for free could mean “do something you do (i.e. provide a skill/service you are educated/trained in/incredibly gifted at) free of charge”, or do an activity (i.e. unlimited life-long FREE downhill skiing!) for free for the rest of your life. :) Oh the options. I think it would be safe to say that we’ve all wished everything was free at some point. For me, this question somewhat ties in with the ‘what would you do if you had 1 million dollars’ question. If I had a million dollars, I’d do many of the things I do for a living for free. And if everything was free, then there are more things I would be involved in without any worry of financial stress. Travel for free! Go to school for free! Eat at amazing restaurants for free! It would be a big old free-for-all!
Wow, this would be one crazy chaotic world if ‘Free’ was a common cost. :)
Again, I wrote a longer answer in my actual journal — but this question was easy for me. When I was teaching up in Alaska it was always hard for me to believe I got a paycheck for doing it. I was so engaged, enjoyed my job so very much, that it was pure joy to be there. A paycheck, too? Wow.
So there it is: I would teach. And the subjects would mostly be about creative expression, about art and art-making, writing and appreciating the various arts.
I would travel, learn, teach, volunteer and explore – for free!
I would travel the world over – multiple times! I would learn and immerse myself in cultures – I want to meet people, talk to people, think differently! I do not have set amount of time to spend in each town/city/country. I will spend time where I will and set off for the next place when I am ready!
I would teach English in other countries (as the only language I currently speak, it’s all I have to offer!). I would volunteer – help social causes, environmental and animal conservation, anything I can find that touches my heart – I’ll lend a hand! I am happiest when I feel useful! I want to feel like I am helping to make a difference – to someone, somewhere! That is why I would teach (for free) and dig into volunteering.
Helping other people grow is one thing, and growing myself is another. By helping others grow, I know I’ll be growing myself. But I am also a pretty introspective person.
I know I also need time for myself – I would go on adventures alone, take classes alone – explore alone! Just make time for my own thoughts and to have my own experiences without worrying about other people – just me!
As a sometimes shy/quiet person, I think one of the greatest places for me to grow is by socially connecting to other people (I know because it scares me so much! The fear is an indicator! But I will work on this because it is something I want!!).
I want to connect with groups of people, I want to make lifelong friends all over the globe and I want to go on adventures with my friends – the old and the new ones. The ones related to me and the ones who aren’t!
I will learn and give back by SHARING all of the wonderful experiences I will have!
Your words could have been mine, especially the part about being shy and wanting to connect with others. What a terrific aspiration – to step outside of yourself even though it is uncomfortable and difficult. I hope you are able to do that and learn more about yourself in the process.
I’d teach people who have suffered traumas to paint and express themselves through art. Everyone needs to be able to express themselves. I’d like to help them.
Wow – that is an amazing aspiration. It something that I had never thought about. What a better place this world would be if people could express their pain in a “constructive” way instead of lashing out and causing more pain.
Yes for all of it: rest, pursuing passion like learning dance, musical instrument, doing something adventurous, travelling, blogging about my experiences and creativity for free as I am doing at present, also take up humanitarian causes; educating poor children for free…
However if the task involves intensive research for instance, publishing book/s on my favourite topic/s, if the work is monotonous, labourious then I want it to be rewarded. Will look at others answers for drawing inspiration.
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I automatically thought about what profession I would take on if I wasn’t getting paid, and I find it a little concerning that I wouldn’t do my current job. I’m a preschool teacher and I absolutely love it. I am in grad school for early childhood special education and one day I hope to open an inclusive school for typically developing, disabled, and disadvantaged children. But when I thought about this topic, my mind went to….wedding/event planning. I’m sure it has something to do with the creativity and high paced/high tension environment that I find invigorating. The glamor/style aspect doesn’t hurt either. In some ways, preschool has those qualities, minus the glamor, which could be what I’m craving at the moment.
In fact… It IS what I’m craving now. I need a little more glamor and sparkle in my life.
How to get it?
To think about doing something for the rest of your life whether it be free or not is quite daunting. But with that in mind if I had to choose something I would have to say successfully running my business from where ever I was in the world at that point. While spending huge amounts of my time enjoying myself with my family and friends, eating beautiful foods, laughing and loving life!
To get something for free-That would have to be knowledge. There is so many things that I would love to learn about, and with that new knowledge I would help others as my way of giving back. To teach and show them what I have learned. Some traveling would also be nice.
Strangely, when I started thinking, I felt that nothing would be as good as what I am doing now…running my own business. I would want to do it for free for the rest of my life. Great bunch of people, a business which does something for my country, my ability to experiment with various management techniques (how humbling it is!), etc., etc., Wow! Thanks!!
I will write to inspire how needs to be inspired.I will coach the people who need to be couched.
I’d travel as many countries as possible and I will improve selfawareness throug meditation.
To Kat Parker,
I like your entry because it gave me a different perspective in answering the question. You see, i answered it by thinking of the activities i do now that i get paid for and think which among them i am willing to do for the rest of my life for free.
I haven’t thought of activities that i do that costs me money and if i am willing to do it for free. I just realized that i am most focused about my job and where to earn more money rather than on having a little break.
I don’t know if i am making sense but great post! :)
P.S. i am following the entries through email. I wanted to hit reply to your post but the email link is sending me to the first comment in the Day 2 challenge. Hard to search with all the comments :) Good job guys!
The two things I am really passionate about are nature and travelling !
When I started thinking of what I would be willing to be doing for free for the rest of my life the first thing that came to my mind was growing flowers, making beautiful bouquets and presenting them to people. And the second thought, which came almost at the same time was that I want to travel all over the world, be telling people and especially small children about my experience and through my stories teach them how important is to spread love around ourselves.
First, I thought that these things are two different types of activity a person can do, as taking care of flowers would mean that you always need to be in the garden and it doesn’t go alone with travelling.
But… ! … on the other hand:
1. I could always spend half year travelling and half year gardening, or
2. Maybe, growing flowers is basically one of my views of being closer to what I love and at the same time give people beautiful moments, which basically means spreading love around.
There may be lots of variations and possible ways to combine those two things that i love.
However, what is really important for me now is that now I have understood that whatever i would want to be doing, it should be connected with people, nature and sharing love and beauty with others.
To inspire and to share happiness with people.
Whenever I hear this type of question about what I want to do, or where I want to be, I always think of the situational anecdote and John Lennon quote of being asked the question “What do you want to be when you grow up?”
“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.”
I want to be insanely happy, and I’d like to inspire others to be as well and pursuing their passions that make them feel like they have a purpose.
That would be my personal mission, but on a daily basis, I’d like to be travelling around the world and live somewhere different every few months. To learn and to share my experiences.
First thing that comes to my mind is sleep. But that’s just because I’m tired and would really like to get some long sleep, read newspapers in bed and eat breakfast in bed. Well, that’s something I should do every Sunday – and I think I will. One goal accomplished.
I would read all the books in the world. I think I’ll start that with my breakfasts in bed on Sunday.
I would learn couple of foreign languages. Learn to draw and sew. All the things I don’t have time right now (or I just make excuses not to act on them).
When I put it all like that, it seems that I can do all the things I want; I just need to stop making excuses.
kayaking, cycling, walkling, dancing
I am a social swing dancer, and I would travel around the world dancing and meeting new people.
If I am to do something for free for rest of my life I would tell stories. I would read all the good books and for those stories which are inspiring and heart warming ..make a movie on each of them..
I love to tell stories..and I love to listen to them as well… books/blogs and movies are the best possible ways to tell them to people..
if I look back to the path I have followed in my life so far, I can see that I have actually shaped my life on the basis of those stories which have touched me in my innermost feelings. consciously or subconsciously the messages from those stories have helped to carve my life.. And I am happy the way I am. So I feel If I can tell stories to others may be somewhere out there ,there is another kid who will listen . That story may become one of her dreams or at least make her happy for the time being
How would you want to tell your stories? Would you write novels, screenplays, or maybe tell your stories in person?
Hi Matt,
When I come across any good story I always have a mental sketch on how I would want to share that. Some stories make feel like to make a short film on them, some make me feel like to call up a friend and tell her.. some times I feel like this can be better re-told in my own language so that people from another part of the world can taste it… and some stories are for kids to make them happy they can be silly sketches :D
I would love to do the following things:
1. Traveling. I would love to go to different countries, learn about cultures and meet new people. See the beauty of our planet in other countries but also in my own country. To see what my surroundings, my community has to offer. Learn of new places and visit them with my friends and family.
2. Cooking and baking. I love to try new recipes and share the end results with friends and family. Nothing is better than to spend an evening with good food and a table full of friends and family whom all have a good time.
3. Learning new things. To be able to get all the degrees I want, to learn new things every day. Be it from a book, or from an experience in every-day life. To step past the boundaries I have and learn.
I would try be a better role model for those that ‘observe’ my life. Especially, my adult children and grandchildren. A better role model – not perfect. I would be kind to people, share insights, help wherever I could.
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